San Francisco Sex Guide

"Don't worry, this is San Francisco. 
You can do anything you want."

Mature Content: Many of these pages will ask you to be 18 and from a community with open standards to proceed. 
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 San Francisco Sex Information free information and referral service providing anonymous, nonjudgmental information about sex.

The Sexuality Forum - By Isadora Alman
Very busy web site packed with information which does not become outdated
Savage Love - [] also savage in Seattle 
s a f e r s e x . o r g | an online journal of safe sexuality for the Bay Guardian by Andrea Nemerson's

WINNER of Google "sex Links San Francisco" search

Annual Events
The Folsom Street Fair  
world's largest leather event usually the last Sunday in September
visit our member's only section for slide show

FOTO links Folsom Street Fair 

The Exotic-Erotic Ball
always features Carnaval dancers & more on New years and Halloween too
Carnaval San Francisco
Day-time and kid's group moderate the scantily clad sexy dancing
largest nude race in California but sometimes discouraged

The Burning Man Project Official Site
A fantasy weekend where you are the show
Labor Day weekend in September
Optional Retreats
Set amidst spectacular views of the coastal redwoods of the Santa Cruz Mountains 
Hot Springs near Calistoga Mud Baths  of Wine Country. Owned and operated by Heart Consciousness Church.





Men's Sex 

Mixed-Gender Sex Clubs 
Power Exchange Substation
74 Otis St, San Francisco "Single women and transgendered always free"

Pleasure Zone - San Francisco - erotically and sexually charged San Francisco dance club for adventurous couples and women.

Swinger's Clubs
NASCA Club Directory

Personals - san francisco bay area singles dating, matchmaking & adventures || Match  Alternative #1 global web dating service great for romance on distant shores
Craig's List personals  is going national
women seek women
women seeking men
men seeking women
casual encounters
men seeking men
missed connections
Education Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. 
graduate schools specializing in sexology (the study of sex)  postsecondary school  in San Francisco
Extensive archive of contemporary and historical sexological materials

Body Electric School (Tantra) committed to exploring the healing potential of erotic energy and recognizes the body's wisdom as ancient, sacred, playful, and profound

vulva universityVulva U at 
Register for classes and exchange ideas with your peers on various topics dealing with lesbian sex, ob-gyn issues, masturbation, the G-spot, etc. Leading sex educators teach the classes, which are open to everyone.

Sex Ed in the City by

Coaltion for Positive Sexuality 
giving teens information about sexuality to take care of themselves to affirm their decisions about sex, sexuality, and reproductive control.

Erotic Art Erotic art | May 23, 2001 | The Sex Issue

Tom of Finland - Biography


escorts, massage, private dancers in the East Bay, San Francisco and Silicon Valley areas. - San Francisco 
adult directory featuring video and photo ads
claims to have the largest selection of escorts and exotic related services in San Francisco  area.
Janesguide Reviews

SF-Exotics Advertisements

How to Use Escort Services A Men's Guide  
by Marc Perkel 

San Francisco by
customer reviews for adventuresome travelers
Event Calendars

Workshops and Classes

Cuir Underground's Events Calendar
A mostly Bay-Area resource yet the leather/SM/fetish calendar is updated weekly for local, national, and international events.

Queer Events Page

Workshops and Classes

Message Boards

see also:  | queer forum

SEXplained Forum

Guides where the discriminating and affluent gentleman goes to find the classiest Bay Area female escorts. 
escorts, massage, pro male, bdsm, fantasy, fetish, nightlife, TS/TV Full page photo ads - San Francisco / San Jose
Winner "Best of the Bay" by  Escorts, BDSM, Massage & More! - Eros Guide to San Francisco Adult Sex Services - San Francisco's largest escorts guide, escort, bdsm, massage, female wrestlers, strippers, exotic dancers 

www. exotic 
Massage, Escorts Dancers, Fetishes and more 
escorts, bachelor parties, TS, Alternative, Independents & much more
Planet SOMA : San Francisco [gay oriented]

History Barbary Coast walking tour By Lisa Archer
A tarty history of San Francisco.

Today's Castro, the love of pleasure and the good life is not far from the surface. Be careful ...

Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S. (SIECUS) is a national, nonprofit organization which affirms that sexuality is a natural and healthy part of living. 

SF Gate: Gay & Lesbian Guide: Queer SF

Links guide to sexuality in general 
Advice on Safer Sex and HIV Testing

San Francisco Sexuality Resources - []
sex - Organizations: at San Francisco Bay Area Progressive Directory

sexual minorities directory  by 
Red Light District  by zpub
"San Francisco has an erotic reputation " - Links

Jane's Sex Guide
Large collection of reviewed links. Clinically authoritive, expanding internationally


Spectator Magazine || sex news
for 20 years the guide to the Bay Area's adult entertainment, San Francisco escorts, dominatrixes, bdsm, transsexuals, sensual masseurs, strip clubs, porn stars, strippers, California sexual resources and more...
Sex Worker at
SF Bay Guardian leads in news coverage of reforms to the world's oldest profession. Google search will yields over 7 pages of links
Special Sex Issue 
1st annual issue came out last week of May-- Carnaval week 


Yahoo! NewsYahoo! News Full Coverage-Sex and Sexuality

March 2002 Larry Flynt opens Hustler club in SF by google
"Those who oppose his brand of smut blame him for giving the public a taste for perversity, as if he were the source of our desire, rather than simply a salesman shrewd enough to see through our puritanical cover. "
Jonathon Keats Examiner Book critic

May 2001 California becomes first state to officially run a clothing-optional beach by taking over private operation of Devil's slide Beach now Gray Whale Cove

Nude Beaches SF Bay Guardian Nude Beaches 2001 - By Gary
"D to spots that, despite their use, we recommend you avoid"

Check for update to this the most complete listing for California anywhere at The link is easy to find in the top left corner of home page 

Top ten by



Sex Worker Industry

Being cab drivers in San Francisco we have a lot of interactions with all sorts of working women. 

COYOTE, San Francisco 
("Call Off Your Tired Ethics")  founded by Margo St. James in 1973. COYOTE works for the rights of all sex workers: strippers, phone operators, prostitutes, porn actresses etc.

The San Francisco Task Force on Prostitution 
Final Report March 1996 ....." The following recommendations apply to independent contractors and self-employed people:

    VI. Ensure the rights of sex trade workers to the same health insurance benefits as other self employed people, small business owners or independent contractors, the same right to police protection as other small businesses, and the right to join or form trade unions.
    VII. Ensure those who provide direct contact and/or fantasy services the right to work from premises and the right to advertise.66

PENet - Prostitutes Education Network 

Sex-Biz Diversity: Major Focus at the Sex Worker Film Fest -- Spectator, July 2001
San Francisco Sex Worker Film and Video Festival - by Liz Highleyman publisher of Cuir Underground Events

Resource Guides

San Francisco Sex Information | 
a free information and referral switchboard providing anonymous, accurate, non-judgmental information about sex. If you have a question about sex, they will either answer it or refer you to someone who can!

Betty & Pansy's Severe Queer Review of San Francisco

[cuiruCuir Underground's Resource Guide

Additional Resources for Women

Additional Resources for Men





[cuiruCuir Underground's Events Calendar  by Liz Highleyman 
A mostly Bay-Area resource but expanding for leather/SM/fetish calendar 

Society of Janus San Francisco
Education and support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual, and nonexploitative power exchange East Bay
a group of talented players with fetish and fantasy interests, who can and will bring any safe and legal scenario to life. No Sex

San Francisco Leather and Motorcycle Clubs 
SJLeather - Events and resources 
for the Leather community in and around San Jose, California
 for women interested in s/m between women
Stormy Leather 
 San Francisco's Premiere Fetish Authority

Mr. S Leather and Fetters USA 
 fetish fashion and toy store geared toward men.

QSM, Quality Sado-Masochism, 
primarily a mail-order company in San Francisco

Safe Sex 
Advice on Safer Sex and HIV Testing Huge number of links -
find out whether anything you have done with partners has placed you or others at risk for STD/HIV. From the Denver Public Health Department and The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Hot Sex, Safely: A Guide to Safer Sex Techniques: The best and most comprehensive online safer sex guide from the Society for Human Sexuality 

Strip Clubs 101 Exotic Dancers - Strippers, Exotic Dancers, Male Strippers, Female StrippersStrip Club Reviews

Strip Clubs San Francisco Search by Google 
No local listings yet but plenty of good advice

Swingers - San Francisco Bay Area and now many more Cities. Photos too! 

Basic questions and answers about swingers lifestyle.

Swingers Top 100 Open in New Window ]
A long list of swinger related sites - from dating services to picture galleries.

Straightforward answers to some frequently asked questions about swinging.

sfbg.comSex & Science By Andrea Nemerson
"And yet. Despite the less than stellar performances of the more gimmicky high-tech sex aids, the questions I get as a columnist and educator imply a faith in technology that borders on entitlement. Penises should be enlargeable. Erections should appear when summoned and stick around until dismissed. Orgasms should be not just achievable but multiple"

"Viagra was discovered by accident, and no one even knew how erections worked until fairly recently (muscle contraction or relaxation? answer: relaxation),

All Sex, No PlotGood Vibrations 
promoting sexual health and pleasure since 1977 ... a worker-owned cooperative with two retail stores 
good products for great sex
all genders, persuasions, orientations and varieties of relationships.

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Last update April 2004
Last Link Check March 15, 2005